Friend problems, please help?
I’m 13, and my "best friend" is 12. We’ve been friends for almost three years. But I’m really tired of her. She wants to grow up asap, and I’m not immature, but I prefer not to skip out on fun stuff and unlike her I prefer not to apply makeup til I look like a hooker. Her self esteem is extremely low and all she talks about to me and on the app instagram (photo-sharing social network) is how ugly and fat she is but she’s pretty and quite skinny. And she calls herself a Christian, she is, but she "hates church" and all she cares about is being ‘in the in crowd’ whereas I dont care if I’m liked I’m just going to be me. And she "got her heart broken" at 11, which she STILL talks about. I’ve been having a very depressing month but she doesn’t care, all she wants to talk about is herself and her problems. I’m sick of dealing with her but afraid she will become suicidal if I stop talking to her. Please help!!!!!
I’m sure she will not be suicidal at all. You don’t have to stop talking to her completely, just stop doing things with her and find some new friends that think the same way as you
~John Sotruo
I’m sure she will not be suicidal at all. You don’t have to stop talking to her completely, just stop doing things with her and find some new friends that think the same way as you
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such a burden you I feel sorry for you but also proud bc you still stick around which means you are indeed a true friend ^_^
anyway just tell her that its fun being a kid, dont have much responsibilities and you have so much to explore the only downside about being a a young teen is not having money >_> and if you want something your parents have to approve bc its their money, dont grow up too quick just have fun enjoy your days in school talk about movies, anime and just hangout at the park or something.
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I use to want to grow up quick when i was younger too lol but I still act immature also im a senior in highschool